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Rape/Sexual Assault

 
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angels322009  

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hi i am a single mother of three children and need help with fiing my mobile home and i can't afford the stuff to fixes because i am not able to work and is on a fix income so please help.

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jeanne777  

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my daughter has 3 children there fathers layed off and she is not getting any child support. my granddaughter was abducted out of her yard a few years ago. my daughter was at work and the babysitter was there. my daughter got a call at work that my granddaughter was in the hospital and that she had been raped.my daughter worked at singular and they wanted her to report back to work.my daughter told them she had to get moved and get transportation for her children because off what happened to her daughter. all three children go to differant schools and now her car blew up and she has no transportation the nearest family lives 50 miles away. my husband and i have tryed to keep her indoors but her utilities are so high that we can,t pay anymore. trying to pay her bills and pay ours to has put us in a bind. she has got to have a vehicle and she is trying to get some help on her.she went to college for 3/1/2 yrs and needs 2 credit to get her degree but she owes gov student loans and is trying to go back to college and get retrained but her student loans are in default.her doctor put her on meds that made her sick.she finally desided to quit her medication and  she has not been sick since she has been so sick everyday and i knew there was something very wrong. she got up vomiting and went to bed vomiting and she couldn,t work no where like that

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leslie overcash

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workingmomma  

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i am a single mom of 3. 2 of which live with me. I have no family. All are dead or estranged. i was laid off from my 2 yr job in dec. My company FOUGHT my unemployment. I just had my appeal hearing on 3/11/09- i am still waiting on my decision. My employer was not on the phone for the interview, so i assume they lost by default. The referee mentioned nothing of any evidence they had presented. if she did, she asked me nothing.  was dismissed because of childcare issues that caused me to be late. i was in a relationship for over 4 years and was getting married. We broke up in Sept. which left me with little to no transportation. With my sons learning disabilities, and emotional issues he had severaL days where i had to leave to pick him up from school, or take him to a friends house(if i could find one) when he was emotionally out of control...

 

long story short... i am losing everything. i am working now, but teh $2,880.00 Unemployment owes me, does not looks like it is coming. I do not recieve childsupport or anything else. I am at a loss and so scared. i am doing all i can. In my entire life i have never ever been in a situation like this. Any help, advice, etc would be so appreciated....please keep our little family in your prayers... i am sooooo close to the edge of giving up and ending it all... i cant do this anymore.

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krazybrit  

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i turned 21 inoctobber and the night of my birthday i decided to stay home i had previosly been drug raped and we celebrated my brothers on the same day. i had a great night and crashed in my room about 2 am. i woke up at 5 am unable to c who it was but felt him. he was layin on his side and after a moment of being frozen i grabbed his neck and hit his as hard as i could and yelled for help. nobody answered so i made a run for the door when i realized he was kicking me away from him. by the time others woke up and looked in my room we couldent find anybody but my hand was bruised at first they tried to say maybe i was dreaming it and hit the headboard but then i looked on the couch and there was a guy that wasent there 5 minites before that when i woke him up i saw blood on his lip i knew imeadeatly that it was him and went to get somthing to hurt him with when i returned my father was chocking him and he passed out my mom was holding me back from injuring him and later the cops came and found his blood and his earing in my bed. he got taken in imeadiatly. unfortunatly i find out later i am not the only gitl a 14 yaer old girl was kissing him consentually at first but then he proceded to hold her down rape her and threw her out of a 2 story window. the girl was so scared she dident show up to court and all charges got droped. the guy who did this has not only did this 2 times but i have also been told about another girl who was at a party and when passed out in a room he sexually assaulted her. I think i should try to get in touch with her but am not sure?. not only is this monster already out on 40 days served for my asault because he hired the best lawyer money can buy and toke a plea bargan because he blamed it on cocaine he said he had done earlier that night so now is on probation and just has to take a class but is walking arund school like it never happend ya thats right this is a 17 year old kid i cant even get a restraining order against because he has more rights than me because he is a minor(oh and his mom is blind so if i try to sue him i have to sue his mom because she is in charge of him,. due to this my ful time job fired me elegally when i toke dr written time off and due to the sexual assault i feel my life has been taken away. i am curntly diagnosed with ptsd sever depression, sever anxiety, i am going through withdrawls from vicoden because i got addicted when i started taking them because i have ti wait till the 19 to get my back looked at because i dont have insurance and i am anerexic i am 5'1 and wiegh 95lb i have alredy started loosing my hair and am definatly malnutricien i am trying to start eating good agian but my tummy is having a hard time getting used to it expecially when i have ulcers. i am so weak i can bearly get out of bed and at times feel so alone i moved in with my boyfriend who has been so great but now i can tell is pulling away big time which still hurts and my family is a loving one but vary disfunctional and stress so i try ot only have small doses to keep myselp sane but on the other hand am still a little hurt nobody really cares.  my family just kinda pretends like it never happend. i also have asthma with has been acting up like crazy latly and nobody even comes by to c where i live. i have no help with money and feel so lost and alone.it feels as though my boyfriend has even lost intrest in not only my health but me and i feel like he is the only one i have
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Britney-Fairbanks  

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angarkhola  

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Nacita  

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blackhaurkdown  

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chuka04  

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hi i am chuka. i 23years . i am mongolia . i need a money. help me. please help me.

 

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Nay Nay  

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I am a single mother of 4 wonderful children. 16,15,10 & 8 years old.2 boys and 2 girls. My ex is an alcoholic and very unreliable. my oldest son graduates this year and i don't have the money to pay for anything he needs!a laptop his senior pictures his class ring his truck to be fixed so he can get back and forth from colledge( by the way, he worked three summers in a row to earn the money for this truck and had an accadent 2 months after he got it. his fault and we only had liability and uninsured motorist on it.He has worked ever since tring to get it fixed but we are running out of time) and whatever else comes with a graduate! My oldest daughter is a very talented athlete. She plays select softball and has a cannon for an arm! i know she will get a scholarship for softball but i can't afford to keep her in select. i need a sponser for her. It cost 4,000 a year for her to play!I can't afford daycare so I have to rely on the two oldest ones to take care of the younger ones! I have amazing children and i am tired of them getting the raw end of the deal! if anybody can help me please let me know! i am willing to work for your help! 

 

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kryssy2u58  

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Pastor MadonnaButterfly  

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  Hi! My name is: Madonna. Nice to meet you! I want to update you on my situation. Previously, I wrote about my terrible situation. I wrote about the 4 Bdrm., 3 bath, 2 kitchen, two-story home that was situated on 10 acres of land. The house was condemned and not fit to live in due to falling down. The house was snake infested with 'water moccasins'. We lived there 4 years. I was bitten 7 different times while living there from the snakes. Not to mention the deadly Black mold infestation. We own 10 dogs that we've raised their whole lives. Parting with them was not an option for us. However, with this many dogs it's difficult to the point of being impossible to finding another place to live. Our dogs are well behaved and trained to go outdoors to potty. Two of them are 16 years old. We are responsible pet owners. Not all people are responsible pet owners and allow the dogs to destroy the rental property, which makes it hard for people like us to find a rental property to move to. The house we lived in posed a threat to my husband's life too. My husband of 23 years, is Final Stages of Cirrhosis Stage: 4 Liver Failure, in need of  a Liver Transplant. The Dr. gave him '6 months' to live and that was '5 years ago'! Praise God! They said he would be bed ridden and unable to walk in two weeks~within the month. That was 5 years ago! He feeds all the dogs everyday, takes out the trash, cooks dinner for us and plays with our dogs and does very good! He even works on his truck trying to get it running!!!!! I admire my husband's strength and determination and his trust in God! My husband according to Dr.'s is a walking miracle!!!! I prayed and kept looking for us another house to live in that was snake and mold free! To no avail. I didn't give up. I trusted God. I prayed everyday for 4 years.....finally.....God spoke to my husband while we were riding down the road. I gave up on looking for a house being told 'No pets' so many times. I just stopped looking. I got tired of the disappointment after getting my hopes up. We passed by a pretty white house with a huge yard in city limits. The house looked empty but I just kept going. My husband said, "Honey, let's look at this house....back up! The house looks empty!" I said, "It may be empty but they aren't going to let us have our dogs! We have 10 dogs and nobody is going to rent to us!" He insisted that we stop! We did. I pulled into the drive and told him it's a beautiful house but the note may be out of our league and probably no dogs allowed!" Nice home and yard! There was no number available to call. No name or info. Within '5 minutes' of us being at this house....here comes the Owner into the driveway! Asking, "I'm the Owner of this house! Are you interested in renting it?" I told him that we haven't looked inside of the house yet! And wasn't sure of how much he wanted?" He handed me the key and told me look inside! He only wanted $325. a month! Cheaper than what we were paying! Then I asked the important question, "Can we have 10 dogs here?" Surprisingly he asked, "Do you keep them fed and took care of?" I said, "Yes, Sir. They are very important to us!" He said, "Yes you can have them! I won't charge a pet deposit! I will come by and see how things are going!" I said, "I have one more question, Are you a Christian?" This was important to me too! I wanted a Christian Landlord! His Father was a Preacher! He was raised in Church and was glad I asked him that!" We are still here in our new home and have been here 7 months now and loving it! Great neighbors that all love dogs! God has truly blessed us in many ways! However, our lives are not picture perfect! The day after we found our new house, I was busy packing and preparing to move. Our floor furnace blew up. Gas filled the house. I called 911. The firefighters got us and our four dogs out of the house. But our bird and fish that we had died due to the gas. We were lucky to be alive. The firefighter told us that our landlord was suppose to have replaced the floor furnace due to it blowing up before and cause a woman to lose her life in that house. I didn't sue or prosecute her but have taking action to keep her from renting that house again until it's brought up to code. We thank God for our blessings. Just because we are blessed does not mean we are problem free! We have learned to trust God and to do our best to help ourselves and be thankful for what we have and to not want what we dont' have! Sometimes God just gives us what we need and that is a blessing too! God can do all things. But he wants us to help ourselves! Because if he did it for us, we would learn to depend on him for everything! He wants us to help ourselves so that we can get the glory and satisfaction and pride to say "We did it!" So we can be proud of our own accomplishments! He helps us to help ourselves and he can open shut doors! This is part of our growth, faith and trust in him and in ourselves too! God Bless You! I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers! Remember to pray for yourself too! Your situation can change....ours did! Have patience, understanding and devotion!!!! It can happen for you too! God Bless~

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chrismuz  

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Jazzy35  

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I have been researching different programs to help get baby clothing for my pregnant daughter and I have found little success. So if anyone out there has any baby clothes for girls that you do not needplease e-mail  at johnsonjonsene@gmail.com.

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TrueCrimeFanatic  

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i talk in gift  

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I would like to help and talk to people

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Next2  

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I'm an x wife of a 15yr marriage of 10 of them I was a stay home wife /mother of 2 boys (ages now 8 & 10).  My x is making $100,000 yr with California state employee nice retirement plan and room for promotions but decided the offers in the past just because he didn't want to advance to the next ranking.  I was ordered temp spouse support of $740 during the divorce proceeding (which took over 2 yrs to finalize and I have since then falling into collections of marriageable credit cards that his name was not the primary card holder and his name was taken off after he charged his  lawyer initial  fee of $3500) We went to trail at which he was awarded the Harley and the boat was to be put up for sale and he receive $2300 for the up keep of the boat (Btw boat only worth 3000 according to his research) . He didn’t put the boat up for sale.  He filed an order to show cause to receive the boat in loot of my payment to him that was ordered for previous storage fees and payment of the boat (Btw boat was stored at our house until a week after he left the home and put it in storage himself).  I received the all the furniture that I didn’t ask for since I was  forced to move  1800sq ft home into a 900sqft low income apt. ½ martial debits & my spousal support cut $700month and stopping in Jan 09.  (Btw have over 30,000 in debt collections and my credit score is dropping fast from 767)

Now remember I haven’t had a job in 10 years and still don’t have one.  I have a hair dresser licensed but only worked in that field for 1 ½ years and that was 12 yrs ago.  Since then I have had car accidents and chronic back pain and tendentious in my right elbow.  Just one of this injuries keeps a person out of this field of work and all 3 is impossible to do work in this field again.

 How can I become self supportive because I’m can’t even afford my basic needs

I’ve tried to start but since I have no family or any real friends that could help me with day care and their father he isn’t going to do anything that will help me.  Plus he now has a live in girlfriend and her 3 girls.  (Btw his girl friend was one of my good friends.  Her daughters are same age as our boys and we where neighbors but this isn’t the woman that made him attempt to walk out of the house Christmas Eve 2006)

           I do have a long term goal of going to college as full time student for 4+ yrs to receive my RN degree and then work in one of the local hospitals.  This is a very doable plan if I had the right support amount from my x. plus the child support is not calculated right.

 

          Basically in a nut shell I need a help in the legal field to fight for my rights as an x wife and as a citizen of the United States.  He has completely had the courts swayed to his favor and left me and even our boys with so much debt that we are drowning.  I can’t get any assistance cuz with both child support and spousal support we make $120 over the amount for the assistance.

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hotblonde  

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i'm a mother of 5 kids ive had a rough year my ex took my baby i havent seen her over 7 months i been rape just recent . so hasnt been a good year for me i want to know how i can a grant so i can take my ex back to court, buy a house, and a car.. open a bussness up.

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JANELLY24  

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I am currently 6 months pregnant, I lost my job in June 2008 and in July I found I was pregnant. I am trying to find a job but no one will hire me I guess because I am pregnant. The time is coming when the baby will be out soon and I am still in this troubled situation. I just need some extra cash to be able to pay my rent on time and no have so much worry all the time

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